Every team has a leader. With you are your wife, you are that leader and you have to take charge. If you set the tone in the right way, she will follow happily. Maybe you don’t feel like talking and talking over the same issue, but your wife needs it. Maybe you don’t feel like going to a flower show, but your wife needs it. Maybe you don’t feel like watching a chick flick, but your wife needs it. Maybe you don’t feel like…..you fill in the blank, but realize it may be something your wife needs. Give her attention and kindness.
Here is some great knowledge:
- Never yell at each other unless the house is on fire.
- Never try to always win an argument.
- Never criticize unless you do it in a loving way.
- Never bring up mistakes of the past.
- Never go to sleep with an argument unsettled.
- Never go through the day without least giving your wife 1 compliment.